A letter to an unborn orphan whom I will adopt
By Derek Frazier
I will not be the stereotypical
American father you imagined.
When we play sports, I will
throw baseballs through your
mother’s windows and lose frisbees
in the trees of our front lawn.
On the Fourth of July, I will
be too busy making a bonfire in the grill
to actually cook anything.
And I will spend far too much time baking
and reading to watch football with you.
I do not fish, I do not like smoking,
and I do not enjoy fighting
another person’s battles.
I will, however, be a teacher.
I will show you how to cook,
how to speak other languages
and write worlds into being.
When you fall in love or become frustrated
because of some mercurial romance,
I will be there to explain them as best I can–
and I’m sorry– because with all
my experience, I will fail miserably.
I will teach you how to fight
and stand up for yourself.
To treat others with respect no matter their color or gender.
You will learn to hold the door for someone,
to look both ways before crossing a street.
You will learn to mind your manners,
your “yes ma’am” and “yes sir.”
In the end my child of Africa, China, India,
England, or even Harlem, you will learn
from a father nonetheless.
And I will give you a home.